At just 5 years old, Sebastian and his siblings were placed in foster care, while his mum received treatment for cancer. This was an experience that shaped his understanding of how children navigate loss and adapt to new surroundings. His memories from that time offer a unique and personal insight into the emotional challenges faced by children in care.

Throughout his childhood, Sebastian encountered all 10 Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs)—factors known to increase the likelihood of emotional difficulties later in life. Despite these challenges, with the support of a strong network and time, he transformed potential obstacles into strengths.

Sebastian came out as gay at 18, and for many years, he believed marriage and family life were out of reach. Although he thrived professionally in designing learning programmes, he struggled with his mental health throughout his early twenties. With the unwavering support of his family and friends, Sebastian found a renewed perspective on life, rebuilt his mental health, and went on to develop a successful career in learning and development.

In 2020, Sebastian and his husband, Patrick, became foster carers, opening their home and hearts to children in care.

Now in his 40s, after attending both inspiring training workshops and less engaging online courses, Sebastian decided to merge his 25 years of expertise in learning and development with his lived experience as a foster carer. His goal? To create practical, focused online courses that equip foster carers and parents with the tools they need to support children in their care.